Dear Survivor, 

There is much to say during these trying times. I want to first acknowledge the shifts and upsets that billions of people across the globe have had to make these last few weeks. The unknown has become a new normal for so many and this is no small task. I am with you in this and want to say I feel you, I understand, and I thank you for being in it with me. I know that together we can create massive influence on anything we set our minds to. As we have seen so often throughout history in uncertain times, when we remain humble, kind and caring, healing happens, strength expands and lives change. I am thankful that we have access to technology which allows us to stay connected to our work, our communities, our friends and our families. For this, I am ever so thankful and proud to be a part of this world. 

As many of you know, April is Child Abuse Prevention Month. I know that turning our attention to topics unrelated to COVID-19 may be a challenge, AND…I also know that COVID-19 is the EXACT reason why we need to focus on child abuse and neglect right now. As a single mom to three little ones, I can admit that nerves can be frayed a bit, routines are off-balance, some days are better than others, but boy almighty is this eye opening for me in my role with EndCAN. I know that abuse occurs in isolation. I know that “abusive parents love their children very much, just not very well,” as Henry Kempe was so good at saying. Yet, I also know that if I am stressed, and I have a job, a home, food, good support systems, and the ability to take breaks, I can only imagine what life is like for those parents who don’t have even a fraction of the above. I imagine what their children must be thinking, feeling, experiencing, losing, and fearing. How are we keeping children safe when their doctors, teachers, friends, protectors, and community members who are often both their and their parents’ saving grace, are not there? What is happening for those little ones? Who is looking out for them? I can’t help but think the impact of COVID-19 will reach beyond the one on our economy and businesses, beyond our education systems and tapped out teachers. It will impact everything, including the children who we are working so hard at protecting. SO much can be done with policy to provide resources to parents and children and support services that will be essential to healing when this passes. For each of us, awareness of impact, keeping our eyes open, calling when needed, and providing hope, love and light to everyone we come in contact with are all ways we can help each other now. 

If you suspect a child is being abused, neglected, or exposed to an unsafe situation, never hesitate, trust your instincts, and please make the call: 1-800-4-A-CHILD.  

And now I have a call to action: To those of us who’ve made it out of abuse. Those who have been affected by it, experienced it, live with someone who is a survivor or know someone who is, this is for YOU. Child abuse affects EVERYTHING it comes into contact with. Some of us have permanent scars, many of us are still struggling on a daily basis with mattering, attachment, healing, addiction, mental illness, chronic diseases, autoimmune issues, you name it, we know it doesn’t just STOP when the abuse STOPS. I NEED YOUR VOICES. We need every person affected by child abuse and neglect to join us! Together we can create a community of change by being LOUDER THAN SILENCE. You don’t need to share your story, you don’t need to out your abusers, you don’t even need to define what abuse means to you, I only ask that you join us and BE THE CHANGE. Raise your hand, get informed and help us spread the word. Together we will break this cycle!

On April 30th we are hosting a virtual event, our 1st No Dinner Dinner (ironically it was already a virtual event before the physical distancing measures, to help reach a national audience). This night is one of connection, information, entertainment, and a call to action to Join Us to help end child abuse and neglect. Head to our website for more information on how you can Take Part. I can’t wait to see you there!   

All my love, 

Lori Poland, Founding Executive Director


Raise Your Hand and Be Part of the Change

Millions of children are home right now without the support systems that keep them safe. Abuse happens in isolation, and there are many children who are suffering and struggling. Everyone one of us matters and needs a voice. Every child deserves a healthy, safe and nurturing environment. Raise your hand, speak up and join us in being part of the change.

Together we are #LouderThanSilence!


National Child Abuse Prevention Month 

April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month 

Child abuse and neglect (CAN) impacts everyone it comes in contact with. It’s a physical health, mental health and public issue that affects us all. The only way to stop it, is to join together to understand and treat it better. 

We have ignited and are now – LOUDER THAN SILENCE – because it is time that we embrace everyone effected by CAN; survivors, thrivers, transcenders, neighbors, family, friends and entire communities. When we #SpeakUp, we become the change, the change that will enhance focus on research, training, and prevention of child abuse and neglect. 

If we could cure a disease simply by talking about it, we would…Here is our chance.  

JOIN US – be it a whisper or a roar – let’s get LOUDER THAN SILENCE. Share this video!

It’s time to let the world know we are stopping it.


Immediate Help & Support 

Social distancing does not mean you are alone. If someone is hurting you, abusing you or neglecting you, call the National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-Child (1-800-422-4453) or contact your state hotline which can be found hereHelp is on the way.

If you suspect a child is being abused, neglected or exposed to an unsafe situation, trust your instincts and call the National Child Abuse Hotline
1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453).


Additional Resources  




This April 30th  at 6:30 p.m. MT 
We’ve Decided to Do Things a Little Differently 

April 30, 2020, is the end of National Child Abuse Prevention month, however, it is not the end of child abuse and neglect, and therefore we cannot stop until child abuse ends. 


We’ve been discussing that maybe the timing of our event is quite impeccable. As we all struggle with the current health crisis, we know that it is times exactly like these - stress, fear, and anxiety - that child abuse is most rampant. And we simply must actively work to bring people together and unite our voices to end child abuse and neglect.

EndCAN is excited to invite you to our virtual No Dinner Dinner. In lieu of attending this event that no one else will be attending, we respectfully request you consider participating from the comfort of your own home, wearing what you like and eating your favorite foods with your family and/or friends. 

We will be hosting a LIVE YouTube video stream. You can join us via your Smart TV, tablet, laptop or phone.

In one hour you will:

  • Learn about EndCAN and our work
  • Understand what we can collectively do
  • Get a bit of entertainment and joy

By participating in this virtual event, you'll learn how you can BE THE CHANGE by sharing your story, taking the pledge, volunteering, spreading the word or donating.

So please consider purchasing your “virtual ticket”, to collectively help end child abuse and neglect. 

Table of 10 Tickets Donation - $1,000
Ticket Donation - $100 per ticket

Please contact for sponsorship opportunities. 

Any donation toward helping end child abuse and neglect is appreciated.


Upcoming Events 


Be The Change

For far too long, people have been silent about child abuse and neglect. At EndCAN, we’re working toward change! We encourage you to BE THE CHANGE and join us as we TAKE ACTION. 

Here are some ways that you can make a difference!

The National Foundation to End Child Abuse and Neglect (EndCAN) raises awareness of the health, mental health and public health impacts of abuse. EndCAN focuses on funding research; investing in innovative child abuse prevention and treatment; and supporting survivors. All is made possible thanks to your donations and support.

We thank you for being part of the change!

The National Foundation to End Child Abuse and Neglect is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit entity (IRS tax exempt number 82-3752131), and all contributions are tax-deductible.